Doon youth club conducts classes to make us realize about our behaviour.
What I understood am sharing here.
We respond to any situation or matter of dispute in two ways. Sometimes it is proactive response and sometimes it is reactive.
First lets know what is reactive and what is proactive.
1-Reactive response-negative feelings,lose-lose situation ,weak, looser and so on.
2-Proactive response- positive feelings, powerful,win-win situation,empowered,winner and so on.
Your best proactive advisor-“self only”
You cannot hold on to any relationship without being proactive.
Prepares one to be assertive NOT aggressive while interacting with others.
It is a life changing concept.
Enables one to say “NO”, essential aspect of assertive response.
Transform knowledge to skill through practice.
It expands your circle of influence .This is the most rewarding experience.
Proactive response means one is prepared to deal with negatives.
Now it is the time for you to choose between the two ways. One which has positive consequences and other which has negative- short & long term.
Remember you will never fight with a pig.If you do you will get dirty and the pig enjoys it.
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